10.03.2010
It's a Girl!
My fellow student Michelle and I rolled onto the floor at 7am to a "packed house" and several imminent births on the status board. I was psyched when I walked into my first patient's room with my nurse to discover that she was a 16 year old Latina girl. As some of you may know, I am quite certain I want to work with the Spanish speaking population, and I've always loved working with teens, so this was like a double score. She was a very mature young lady who easily allowed you to forget she was so young, until she would smile or laugh or yell out and you saw a mouth full of braces... her boyfriend and mom were there to accompany her through labor. I have never seen someone who looked so nervous and lost as that 16 year old boy did when things got rolling. He needed almost as much encouraging as she did. My second patient was almost the exact opposite- a 35yr old mother, 37 year old father, both of Indian descent. Dad was so excited, so nervous, and as prepared as any guy could be for what he was about to go through.
The process of the two labors themselves is something I will probably never forget. I will save you the gory details and just say that it was at once amazing, terrifying, messy, and fascinating. I felt honored to be a part of such a momentous life occasion for those involved. I must admit I did get a bit teary eyed after the second birth- I couldn't help it! The mom was sobbing and I'm pretty sure the dad was in shock. Afterwords the dad had me show him how to hold the baby (which, mind you, I have done probably all of 5 times in my life...) and he said "no matter how much you prepare for this you just can't ever really imagine what it is like... I have so many images in my head I just can't erase them."
The most interesting part of it all was the fact that the births seemed so unnatural in a way. Both mothers were flat on their backs with so many IV lines, monitors, and wires attached to them they were practically strapped down to the bed. As we have discussed time and again in my L&D lectures, we have medicalized birth to the point that we make it more taxing and difficult on women's bodies than it ever needs to be. Instead of using gravity to our advantage by putting the woman in a vertical position, we force her to remain horizontal. Instead of trusting that the birth will not have complications (as the vast majority don't) we prepare for the worse by putting in unnecessary IV lines and preventing mothers form eating or drinking from the moment they step in the hospital until an hour after they give birth- just in case they MIGHT have to go to the OR for a c-section. Blood pressure cuffs stay on the entire labor and go on every 15 minutes (that thing is annoying when you're perfectly healthy... I can only imagine how obnoxious and constricting that must be when you're laboring).
It should be noted that both my patients were working with a doctor (an OBGYN) as opposed to a midwife. Midwives are well known for their emphasis on alternative birthing methods. I ask, alternative to what? Alternative to what some doctor in 1957 decided was easier for HIM in monitoring his laboring patient- sitting comfortably on a stool in front of a conveniently placed, easily visible woman. What have we done to the ultimate natural process of birth?
9.18.2010
Blog, revisited
1.24.2010
photos!
Anywho, I finally uploaded some pictures from my trip. The easiest way for you and me both was to put them in a photo album on Picassa- in case you aren't familiar with it don't worry, it's really user friendly. Just click on the link below and it will take you to a slideshow type thing where you can click through them as fast or slow as you'd like. There are in relatively chronological order... So enjoy! Hope you like the show:
http://picasaweb.google.com/
1.10.2010
saying goodbye
Simultaneously the best and worst part of traveling is having friends all around the world. The worst because a goodbye is never "see you next week." A goodbye is always "I hope I see you again soon" knowing that it could literally be years... And the best because you have this wonderful friendship with someone who lives half way across the world, who speaks another language, and who grew up in a totally different culture than your own. That despite all these differences and distances, these friends are no different than any others you have in your own country. It gives me this sense of satisfaction and amazement when I think about it, because the truth is that the distances are very long but the differences are, in the end, very few indeed. And a good friend, no matter where they are in the world, is someone that you know in your heart of hearts that you will always see some time again.
When I look back over my trip, I am content with what I accomplished. As per usual, my long list of things I want/ed to do down south was not really shortened at all. I still haven't made it to Iguazu Falls or to southern Patagonia. I still haven't gotten to Columbia. In fact every trip to South America only seems to add to my list rather than subtract from it... but that's ok. It is an excuse for more adventuring in the future! For me this trip was deeply marked by the people that were involved along the way. My visits back to my old stomping grounds in Chile and Argentina served to reconnect me with the people that were the cornerstones of my experiences during my year abroad. My time in Uruguay and my unique living situation were nothing if not for the people that I spent it with.
Leaving Montevideo was one of the most difficult goodbyes I have had yet because upon my return to the states I am facing a different reality than I have in past years. I am no longer a carefree college student with time to travel and a savings account best spent on plane tickets. Though I know my return to South America is imminent, I have never before left without some fairly concrete idea of when I would be returning. Though I hate to be dramatic, it was a very odd, and fairly gut-wrenching feeling to leave that way this time. Luckily, the question is not "if" but "when" I will be back, and I have no doubt that as soon as I am able I will again find myself immersed in the distinctly southern rythm that I have grown to know and love.
My last week in Uruguay was a whirlwind and 5 of those days were spent in small beach towns without internet, so I know there is a bit of a gap in my blog postings. Over the next week or so I will be filling in some of those gaps, and also doing several blogs with pictures posted. Then I guess I will sign off of Don't Stop Her Now until the next adventure. Or maybe not. Blogging has grown to be a bit of a habit. Maybe the blog will change directions and I will post my observations from my up and coming first semester in nursing school. Thoughts? Let me know... after all this blog has been as much for you as it has been for me!
I want to thank all of you for reading. I hope you have enjoyed following them as much as I have writing them. In my two day "layover" in Los Angeles these last few days, I found that my friends were referring to my blog postings in conversation. I am happy to know that people have not only read my musings over the last few months, but that they are continuing to serve as conversation points now that I am home again.
Back in Boulder I am unpacking and repacking for my move down to Denver. While I am still adjusting, it feels good to be back and to see my family again. Looking forward to seeing YOU soon! Much love and Happy New Year!
Cate
12.29.2009
feliz navidad!
12.18.2009
fading into the sunset



12.05.2009
Of Escapades and Naps in the Shade

A New President
11.19.2009
soy celeste!
In the last month I have become an all around odd job here at the hostel. Though I am still teaching yoga (which is becoming more and more popular and fun), it is hardly my main job anymore. I now wear the hats of entrepreneur, marketer, bartender, activities coordinator, translator, office organizer, accountant, and countless others. While this makes it sound like the hostel was a complete disaster before my arrival, that is not the case- it just needed a bit of fine tuning. The owners, both Uruguayan, both first time business owners, and ages 25 and 26, are doing a supurb job considering the hostel only opened 5 months ago! However they just don't have the time, outsiders perspective, or, for better or for worse, the deep seated trainings of a capitalist culture available. Thus I have filled this hole and devised several new and, if I do say so myself, rather crafty ways for them to stop breaking even and start getting ahead.
It is an increasingly creative project for me. I have never, for example, created a bar from scratch. Or tried to purchase and price bicycles for rental purposes. Nor have I ever bartended or created a cost/profit balance spreadsheat for a small business before. My mother, who has faught a lifelong and very uphill battle to teach me how to organize myself, would be beyond proud at the number of small organizational feats I have accomplished in the past few weeks... creating to do lists for them and setting up folders and task management tools. Ironically I don't think that, even in the height of my college career, I was ever as organized myself... Somehow it seems infinately easier to organize someone else's life than my own...

Well people, I am going to go mix and mingle again. Hope all is well in your corner of the world!
11.09.2009
Past Blogs
Just a quick little blog how to post... If you would like to review
previous posts from last month (like, say, if you haven't been by
lately and missed my end of October posts) than you can do that by
going to the menu on the left hand side of the page. You will find a
list of months from July (when I wrote my first post) until November.
Simply click on the month and all the entries for that month will pop
up!
Cheers
-cate
11.06.2009
mas!

A National Addiction
Bienvenidos a la casa
Gabi and Juan, co-owners of the hostel, cleaning up in the hostel kitchen.
10.30.2009
Change in plans...
in my trip plans... In the last few weeks I have settled in to my
hostel home and formed a comfortable routine. My "bosses"- the owners
of the hostel ages 25 and 26- have become my good friends. The yoga
classes are becoming more popular as tourism season picks up and most
of the beds are occupied thruout the week. Several projects I have
organized to add flare and individuality to the hostel are just coming
into fruition. And the more people asked how long I am going to stay
here, the more I didn't like my answer... Thus, after much pondering
(and some helpful reaffirmation from my parents) I have decided to
suspend my travels to Columbia and stay in Uruguay instead! My
situation here in the hostel is just too good to let go of in only one
short month and there is too much to see...
Thus I will be here in my home away from home until January (with the
exception of a short visit to Buenos Aires in December)! In just a
moment I will post some pictures of my residence and my cohabitants,
and maybe even a little map to better orient you to my current
whereabouts... I also apologize for the fact that I no longer speak
English like a native speaker... I just isn't coming out quite like it
should...
I hope you all are well and getting ready to celebrate Halloween in
style up north!
more to come...
-cate
10.19.2009
Photos Part 1: La Paloma, Uruguay
10.18.2009
Photo link
masterful mishmash of photos from her recent visit up here to my
humble little city. I say humble because Eve lives in the sprawling
megopolis that is Sao Paulo... Anywho, check out the video of her
visit on her blog here (and read more of her stuff if you're curious
about the life of a fullbright english teacher in brazil!):
http://evearielle.wordpress.com/
cheers! Oh and PS I will be posting my own photos soon I swear!!
10.16.2009
Footie
most of you are probably totally unaware of, though information on it
is abundant and easily accessable. It is a war of nations and die hard
patriotism. It is a war that leaves winners extaticly wild and losers
sufferingly ashamed. It has been going on for three years but it will
all end next year... and then it will start all over again with the
same fury and passion. It is the war to win a spot in the 2010 World
Cup in South Africa.
Latin America is currently pulsing with World Cup fever. Weekly games
are viewed by millions of anxious fans watching to see how each result
will affect the standings of their own team in the complicated web of
points and rankings that have literally been 3 years in the making. We
are now in the final stretch of games- obviously also the most
critical stretch since 3 of South America's 5 qualifying teams have
already been guarenteed a spot (Brazil, Paraguay and Chile). The last
spot will be determined in the next few weeks, but one spot was
determined this week in a bitter and historic battle between team
Argentina and team Uruguay. And guess who scored a ticket to the big
face off Wednesday night? Yep, yours truly!!
The stadium where the game was held is in an enormous park in the
middle of downtown Montevideo. It was built in 1930 for the very first
world cup game ever- coincidentally played between Argentina and
Uruguay! It hasn't changed much since it was built, except for the
addition of a sound system about 30 years ago and a new big screen
that was added just last year. It was packed with fans wearing shades
of blue and waving the striped blue and white Uruguayan flag. There
was also a small section holding about 5,000 drum banging, flag waving
argentine fans who proceeded to cheer and sing throughout the entire
length of the game... In an attempt to avoid violence between the
opposing sides, the argentine section was seperated off at the end of
the stadium by several rows of empty seats, metal fences, and riot
police...
The game itself was exciting and high energy for the first 20 minutes
or so. Then it just got slow and both sets of fans anxiously awaited a
goal that didn't come until 75 minutes into the game. I quite enjoyed
listening to all the swearing, singing, insults being hurled at the
refs and in the general direction of the argentine fans, and standard
sports game commentary from the surrounding crowd ('oh go home and
suck on your bottle you big baby!'; 'my god ref who paid you off
this time?! You forgot your head at home!'; 'NO! Pablo you dumbass,
juanito was wide open on the left!'). In all it was an entertaining
and enjoyable experience, though Uruguay lost 0-1 and eveyone filed
out rather dejectly from the stadium.
I left thinking how we really have no national team in any sport that
unites people from all over our country to cheer on team USA. Except
during the olympics I suppose... We also have such a wide variety of
high quality pro sports to follow that I would say we don't have one
single national sport- unlike here where soccer is THE national past
time and is almost like a national religion. But what most impressed
me was the age and history of the stadium. In our obsession with
always having the most modern and advanced arenas, we have lost the
value in the history such a place carries. None of the pro stadiums or
arenas in Denver are more than 20 years old. You cannot take your
grandson to a game in the very same stadium where you first saw your
team play 50+ years ago. There is something amazing about sitting in
the stands where millions have sat before you, watching teams repeat
rituals and cary on rivalries that they have fought out on the same
turf for decades... I will leave you now with these thoughts as this
entry has gotten way too long and I probably lost many of you about
four paragraphs ago when I said World Cup. Hope all is well in the
land of plenty!
-cate
10.10.2009
Of yogi tips and tortilla chips
The city itself seems to be 20 years back in time- everything looks sort of antique but new, from the cars to the streets to the people. Uruguay used to be quite a wealthy country in the 50s (they call it the switzerland of South America) but then the economy crashed and now people don't have that much money so they maintain everything in very good condition. Cars that are 20 years old are impeccable, the sidewalks are washed (literally washed with soapy water and a broom), buildings could use a paint job but for being 100 years old are looking darn good. Anyone over 50 dresses in a manner that I can only think of describing as dapper- men in slacks, a collared button down shirt, a sweater vest and maybe a scarf. A euro circa 1950 style... The younger people however are very funky and hip. Skinny jeans are in, skirts with tights and converse, 80s print shirts, etc. Like a mix between hipster, euro, and hippy...
-cate






























